There's always a reason why we have to move on...to say goodbye to the feelings we wanted to stay forever. For love has to set its wings free and find the right place where it should be. I cried for the time you were almost mine, I cried for the memories you've left behind. I cry for the times I thought I had you. Never take for granted the person who truly cares about you. Remember, feelings like people grow tired too, when it's neither appreciated nor returned no matter how great you thought the love is.
Love comes without warnings, no flashy signs or wake up calls. It's always present, but once taken for granted, you may wake up one day only to find out, it's gone forever. Say what you want to say when you have the feeling and the chance. Tomorrow may be a day too late. Our deepest regrets may be the things we didn't do, the opportunities missed, and the things left unsaid. I love you but I can't express it because I know deep in my heart that you could never be mine. I tried to love you from afar, but I realized that it's useless, that's why I have to say I love you...Goodbye!
If you think you're starting to fall for a person, don't hide your feelings cause you can never tell when true love comes. There's nothing wrong in trying....It will hurt you more knowing it's too late to get back the love you've taken for granted. Heartbreaks could last as long as you let it, would tear as deep as you allow it to...But the test is not how soon you forget, but how you were able to heal and learn. The heart hides what you can't say, but the eyes say what the heart tries to hide. It would hurt less to hear a sounding bye, than bear a stay and see in the eye that it's a lie.
Whenever I watch romantic movies, witness couples kiss and make up, listen to love songs, I smile and feel good because I know that love still works, if not for me, at least for others. Why say you're not good enough for me when what you mean is the opposite? Why say you regret letting me go when all you mean is you can't love me anymore? Why so many excuses when all you mean is goodbye? If you make a move, you risk failure, but if you never make a move, you risk letting the love of your life walk right on by and you hurt every single time you delay. There are things that we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn, and people we can't live without but have to let go. It's hard to say no when we really mean yes.
It's hard to close our eyes when we really want to see. It's hard to forget when we really can't, but the hardest is to leave when we really want to stay. Love starts with a smile, develops with a kiss and ends with a tear. There's a difference between letting go and giving up. Letting go is sacrificing what was rightfully yours, giving up is foregoing what was never really yours. Let me be in your dreams every night to meet you there with my lonely nights, false hopes and shattered dreams? How can I let go on? If even in my dreams you're leaving me alone? Don't feel sorry for the right things that you did that didn't turn out right cause you learned from them, be sorry for the things you didn't do when you had a chance.
When I love someone, I'll do anything for that love to last forever. When I love someone, I'll sacrifice, I'll give everything he wished for, even if he wishes for freedom. It hurts so much but that's love. Don't be surprised if one day I'll avoid you and be gone, it's not because you've done something wrong and I hate you, but because I'm afraid to love and be hurt again by somebody who can't love me back.
When we fall in love, we never hoped to cry, we never wanted to get hurt, we give more than what we need, and we somehow get equal benefit but more of us end up in tears. When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure, but when you find a new love, you view the past as an experience, a teacher, a learned lesson. In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won or who lost, what is important is when you know when to hold on and when to let go.
You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if their happiness means that you're not a part of it. Everything happens for the best. If the person you love doesn't love you back, don't be afraid to love someone else again. For you'll never know if there is someone better for you out there. Love strives in hurting. If you don't get hurt, you won't learn how to love. Love doesn't hurt all the time. Although the hurting is still there to test you and help you grow. Once you have been hurt, you learn to appreciate love more the second time around.
Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called "falling in love". Because you don't force yourself to fall, you just fall. You cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages. Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. It is a lifetime's adventure in which we are always learning, discovering, and growing. The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only, when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves.
On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse. But don't ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time. To love is to risk rejection, to live is to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure. But another is to risk involvement. To expose your feelings is to expose your true self. To love is to risk not to be loved in return. How to love, fall but do not stumble, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain. Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and strength, it should bring out the best in you. But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end.
Loving people means giving them the freedom to choose who they want to be with and where they choose to be. For all the heartaches and the tears, for gloomy days and fruitless years. You should give thanks, for you know, that those were the things that helped you grow. Loving someone means giving him/her the freedom to find their way, whether it leads towards you or away from you. Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you're not ready to take the risk, then you're not ready to fall in love.
Planned Nigel on Friday, January 12, 2007